The Honeymoon Odyssey: Berlin
After a whirlwind four days in Buffalo-
the flight over to Europe seemed peaceful. And
quick! Compared to the haul
from Melbourne
to New York.
But first- the only snag of our entire trip: Which seemed
like a bad omen at the time, our flight from JFK to Berlin was cancelled. We were rescheduled on another Swiss air
flight which left three hours later and it would mean a stop in Frankfurt
before Berlin, after a 9 hour layover in JFK.
After all the traveling I've done, it still stresses me out when things go wrong. I often need to remind myself that this is all part of the journey.
Hey life and your lemons….How about a massage and pedi in
the airport terminal? Lemonade
please for the journey. I wish every airport had one of
those little spas. It was just what I
needed. They even let me hang out in one
of the massage chairs for a while because it was slow. Plus there was a Duty Free. A black and brown Longchamp bag ended up
coming along on the journey too.
By the time we arrived in Berlin to say we were exhausted would be an
understatement. A fact that was lost on my high school buddy Clark, whom we would be staying with for the next three
nights.
He was excited to have visitors and ready to be our “Berlin
Genie.” He asked me what I wanted to see
and do but it seemed he already had a plan in mind- luckily it was a good one because he likes to be in charge. On that first night I had to
argue with him to take us home once I hit my final wall of exhaustion before getting seriously ill.
The following two days we had the perfect strategy to see Berlin. Clark and his wife belong to a car-share
where they are able to book convertible mini-coopers. The four of us piled in and drove around the
city checking out the landscape to get a feel for the layout.
We stopped at the Berliner Dome and claimed to the top. I’m
not great with heights but it was a great way to get a bird’s eye view of the
city. The architecture clearly shows
where East and West Germany
met. Stark simple buildings on one side
and “normal” architecture on the other.
The sense of history in Berlin is unreal. It’s still being rebuilt brick by brick. Tower cranes scrape the sky in every corner,
constantly changing the skyline of this rapidly growing metropolis.
We parked the car near the Berlin wall and had a little scribble on
it.
Then we took a boat ride at
sunset. I got a little camera happy
after a couple Weiss Bier’s and shot a few beauties.
Clark and I were reminiscing about our cheeky high school
follies while our spouses could only smirk at our idiotic tales. It was awesome to shoot the shit with a mate like I often see Matt doing. It makes me homesick sometimes so I didn't mind that he had to sit through a few laughing fits and inside jokes.It’s so strange when all the sudden we are
grown-up, married, with adult responsibilities.
I’m proud of myself for getting into trouble, and living such a
fast-paced youth. I ignored warnings to
slow down because I was hungry for life.
Slightly rebellious but still responsible, I would always do my homework
before going out to clubs and pubs. My
roommate used to wait for me to get out of class at 10:00PM, where I would jump
into the passenger seat of my car while she drove us out. Sometimes I even painted my nails on the dashboard.
I always wanted and needed to have it all. This is partly why I’m so ready and excited
for a (slightly) quieter life. It's just a different type of fun this time. I can enjoy every second because I didn’t
miss out on one thing about being young.
I went to parties, made mistakes, kissed the wrong boys, bought clothes on credit, and ran around the globe searching for something.
A weekend night, a bottle of wine and Matt are honestly just
as entertaining to me now as going out drinking & dancing was to me then. Maybe
even more so.
This stage in life comforts me in a deeper way than I have
ever known.
People ask me what it’s like being married. My answer is simple. My husband and I are officially
family.
It’s difficult to explain what that feels like without being cheesy or trite but it really is wonderful. I’m building my own family and that is more
satisfying to me than building a city, skyscraper or business.
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My sister and I are so happy you are blogging again. Everyone is writing such good stuff, I feel janky about putting words to paper (screen).
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